Comments on: Don’t Try and Control Everything – Let Go! http://www.relishinglife.com/22/don%e2%80%99t-try-and-control-everything-let-go/ Self Improvement, Personal Growth and Holistic Living. Mon, 12 Dec 2011 14:05:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: Vishal http://www.relishinglife.com/22/don%e2%80%99t-try-and-control-everything-let-go/comment-page-1/#comment-37899 Vishal Thu, 30 Sep 2010 05:04:08 +0000 http://www.relishinglife.com/22/don%e2%80%99t-try-and-control-everything-let-go/#comment-37899 Certainly Kimberly. You have to realize that the harder you try to avoid or prevent something, the more impending the problem or situation appears to be. Everything in this nature is changing. Nothing is permanent. If something is destined to happen, it'll happen. By trying to be against the flow, you are only avoiding peace from coming to you. Just let go. If your boyfriend is destined to be with you, he'll be with you. From other perspective, just think about a mother who is trying to avoid giving sweets to her child. Don't you think the craving for sweets in her child will only become stronger, day by day. I have seen that in my child. The more I try to prevent him from eating sweets, the more stronger his desire becomes for sweets. When I myself give him sweets, for an extended period, his desire subsides and he longer craves for sweets. Certainly Kimberly. You have to realize that the harder you try to avoid or prevent something, the more impending the problem or situation appears to be. Everything in this nature is changing. Nothing is permanent. If something is destined to happen, it’ll happen. By trying to be against the flow, you are only avoiding peace from coming to you. Just let go. If your boyfriend is destined to be with you, he’ll be with you.

From other perspective, just think about a mother who is trying to avoid giving sweets to her child. Don’t you think the craving for sweets in her child will only become stronger, day by day. I have seen that in my child. The more I try to prevent him from eating sweets, the more stronger his desire becomes for sweets. When I myself give him sweets, for an extended period, his desire subsides and he longer craves for sweets.

]]> By: Kimberly http://www.relishinglife.com/22/don%e2%80%99t-try-and-control-everything-let-go/comment-page-1/#comment-37880 Kimberly Wed, 29 Sep 2010 15:39:53 +0000 http://www.relishinglife.com/22/don%e2%80%99t-try-and-control-everything-let-go/#comment-37880 I have a very controlling of my married boyfriend. I do not even allow him to speak to his wife or children because I am afraid of him getting back together with his wife. I do not allow him to do or go anywhere without me. Do you think this is a problem?? I have a very controlling of my married boyfriend. I do not even allow him to speak to his wife or children because I am afraid of him getting back together with his wife. I do not allow him to do or go anywhere without me. Do you think this is a problem??

]]> By: Vishal http://www.relishinglife.com/22/don%e2%80%99t-try-and-control-everything-let-go/comment-page-1/#comment-9948 Vishal Thu, 02 Aug 2007 10:49:56 +0000 http://www.relishinglife.com/22/don%e2%80%99t-try-and-control-everything-let-go/#comment-9948 I really couldn't get your question Corey. Can you expand on it? I really couldn’t get your question Corey. Can you expand on it?

]]> By: Corey http://www.relishinglife.com/22/don%e2%80%99t-try-and-control-everything-let-go/comment-page-1/#comment-9945 Corey Thu, 02 Aug 2007 08:23:49 +0000 http://www.relishinglife.com/22/don%e2%80%99t-try-and-control-everything-let-go/#comment-9945 How do you make a transition into a transition-less state and visa versa? How do you make a transition into a transition-less state and visa versa?

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